Positive # 2 Gossiping

Well it had never been given the true credit it deserves I feel. I mean if I think back to secondary school the best thing about it overwhelmingly was being able to spend the entire day with your best friends – ooh and possibly a guy who had danced with you at the St Patricks day Ceili might sit beside you in Maths.

In our working life I became someone with temporary friends. I mean they were the ones that changed every time you changed jobs. Dont get me wrong I kept adding to my friends over the years, but I did spend my days with people I worked with as opposed to people I liked.

Now I can meet friends for coffee, chat with the mammy’s at school, meet up for a pizza any old evening. I find the chat uplifting. Most of my days I feel 90% sure that I am in the transition of a life change and this is al going to pan out. The other 10% I feel it is going ‘down’ another pan altogether! So when I meet other women (and the token one Daddy – yes we are in a ‘R’ now – I cant bring myself to say the word…please?) at school and we go for coffee I feel a kinship, a warmth a commeraderie that I havent felt since I was at school.

I feel stronger and more upbeat around those mammys who have become my close friends now. If I have something worrying me, I know who to go to. Its like having four or five mothers myself. And believe me with both my parents gone I REALLY appreciate that support.

So GO GOSSIPING – its sharing, its uplifting – its a truly positive energy. (was that too new agey? Or a bit ‘women unite?’ – answers via email please 🙂 )

About joanniemitchell

An enforced lady of leisure. A Lady who cant afford to lunch! I was in Corporate Sales for Global Entertainment Company until 17th January when I had the phone call - 'Meet me in the office with HR'. Now am pursuing my Masters in Professional Writing and looking on the upside after Redundancy.
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2 Responses to Positive # 2 Gossiping

  1. Olivia says:

    Don’t like the woman unite idea at all… it turns my stomach really, but that might be because I recently attended a luncheon for Irish-American woman… I have written them off any future events for me. About 200 woman & at least 75 of them rolling their eyes & dying to walk out… the whole Girl Power not for me!!!

  2. Okay Olivia – I mostly felt like you too – but I think as my kids attend an Educate Together, with mammys from all over -France, Spain, Italy, Nigeria, South Africa and Dunboyne! They have all lived different place and have an open friendly, no BS, honest manner. So for the first time I feel like I am among kindred spirits!

    But I have been to lunchs like you – where personally I left feeling like a worthless, ugly, poor person. I suppose only thing is to value what is good and worthwhile and ignore/dump what is not 🙂

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